Have you ever had one of those days where everything seems to go wrong? You overslept, spilled coffee on your shirt, or missed an important meeting only to have someone give you that ever helpful advice… ‘Oh well, it is what it is.’ Or ‘never mind, things can only get better’ Infuriating isn’t? It but axioms of wisdom fill our lives from old chestnuts like “no pain, no gain” to sports wisdom like “the best offence is a good defence, there seems to be a proverb for everything. There’s good reason, as proverbs provide a connection to truths that go beyond one person or any single moment in time. When you are having ‘one of those days’ the book of Proverbs from the bible has some practical advice that can help turn your day around.
The book reminds us that wisdom is key. But wisdom isn't just about knowing things - it's about putting that knowledge into action. So, instead of just complaining about your bad day, take a step back and think about what you can do to make it better. You could listen to some uplifting music or treat yourself to a snack but do something.
Proverbs also emphasises the importance of character. So, instead of dwelling on your mistakes, try to focus on being honest, humble, and kind. As Proverbs 15:1 says, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." So, even if you're feeling frustrated, try to respond to others with patience and grace.
Another thing Proverbs teaches us is the value of tenacity. Sure, it might be tempting to just give up and go back to bed, but that won't solve anything. Instead, take a cue from Proverbs 14:23: "All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty." Roll up your sleeves and tackle that to-do list - you might be surprised at how much you can accomplish.
Proverbs also reminds us that relationships are important. So, instead of isolating yourself when things go wrong, reach out to a friend or family member for support. As Proverbs 17:17 says, "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity." And who knows? Maybe sharing your struggles with someone else will help you see things in a new light.
Proverbs also encourages us to have faith. So, even if you're feeling discouraged or overwhelmed, remember that God is with you. As Proverbs 3:5-6 says, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." So, gather yourself together, say a prayer, things will get better.
Proverbs might be an ancient book, but its wisdom is just as relevant today as it was thousands of years ago. So, the next time you're having a rough day, take a deep breath, remember Proverbs' practical advice, and don't forget to laugh - sometimes, that's the best medicine of all.
